Lika Liku Hidup

Tanpa kita sadari, setiap hal yang kita lakukan itu penuh dengan tanda tanya. semua yang kita ucapkan, kita serukan, kita nyatakan itu sebenarnya hanya sebuah jawaban dari mimpi-mimpi kita.

selaku penjelajah mimpi, saya kerap bertanya-tanya kepada diri sendiri tentang bagaimana cara menjemput kebahagiaan dibanding kesedihan. dua pilihan yang berat memang, sebagai manusia kita tidak bisa memilih apa yang akan kita hadapi.

musik, prosa, sains, ya ya ya, dan lain sebagainya. pada akhirnya semua kembali ke satu metode dan paham yang sama, ritme. andai saja kita bisa menentukan sendiri jalan hidup kita. berandai dan berandai, apakah cuman itu saja yang bisa kita lakukan? stop wondering and start doing what you need to do. tidak pernah ada kata terlambat untuk memulai sesuatu, usia bukan pembatas untuk melakukan sesuatu, menyerah bukan pilihan.

semoga bermanfaat.

Bagaimana cara mendapatkan gadismu kembali?

hey, gw sempet googling di satu wordpress.
lupa gw namanya rrrr.. trus gw nemuin satu yg lucu deh, see see!

Ceritanya lebih kurang begini: kamu baru saja kehilangan gadis yang kamu cintai setengah mati. Jadi sekarang kamu ingin ingin tahu cara untuk mendapatkan gadis itu kembali?

Kamu ingin gadis tersebut kembali dalam kehidupanmu. Kamu ingin dia menjadi bagian dari kegiatan harianmu lagi. Kamu ingin si dia menjadi sebahagian dari semua kegembiraan dan kesedihanmu. Kamu ingin dia berada di sisimu lagi untuk dicintai.

Selalu ada harapan untuk mendapatkan kembali si gadis. Ada beberapa perkara yang dapat kamu lakukan. Buatlah tindakan agar gadis itu kekal bersamamu, tawanlah hatinya dengan kebaikanmu, hidupkan semula perasaan cintanya terhadapmu.

Pertama, agar si gadis kembali bersamamu, janganlah menghujaninya dengan sms, mengintip melalui Myspace atau Facebook, atau melakukan beberapa kali kunjungan. Hindari tindakan-tindakan intim dengannya. Biarkan si dia bersendirian seketika, jadi dia akan menyedari betapa berharganya diri anda. Tetapi, masa untuknya bersendirian biarlah munasabah, tidak terlalu singkat, dan tidak pula terlalu lama.

Kemudian, kamu dapat menawannya semula dengan kebaikan yang ada pada dirimu. Setelah masa yang ditetapkan berlalu, tunjukkanlah sisi-sisi kebaikan yang kamu miliki. Lakukanlah perkara-perkara yang dapat mencairkan hatinya. Buatlah dia merasa selesa sehingga dia menyedari bahawa kamu memang patut dicintai berbanding dengan kejadian-kejadian sebelum ini.

Akhirnya, kamu dapat menghidupkan semula perasaannya terhadapmu. Kemungkinan besar si dia masih menaruh perasaan terhadapmu, lebih-lebih lagi kamu berdua baru saja mengalami perpisahan. Kamu boleh saja membuat dia sedikit cemburu dengan cara ‘mengusik’ gadis lain. Namun, kamu mesti berhati-hati, jangan terlalu serius membuat gadismu cemburu.

Ad Astra Per Aspera (#Anniversary4PWG)


THE STORY SO FAR: In the two years since it was formed (Mid 2007), Pee Wee Gaskins, a pop-punk group based in Jakarta, has rapidly leapt from the indie scene to the mainstream.
With a single full-length album under its belt, the band has been featured in numerous magazines, including Hai, Rolling Stone Indonesia and Trax, as well as appearing on TV shows like O Channel’s Demo and MTV Indonesia.
The band took its name from Donald ”Pee Wee” Gaskins, who gained notoriety in 1991 for being the first white man in more than half a century to be executed in the United States for killing a black man. In an attempt to stay out of the electric chair, Gaskins confessed to more than 100 murders, though he never revealed the locations of the bodies.
Pee Wee Gaskins began as a solo project for the vocalist, bassist and main songwriter, Dochi Sadega, while he was still playing guitar for metal band The Side Project.
”Two years ago I had an acoustic song called ‘Here Up on the Attic,’ which I had written for a friend, who eventually became my girlfriend,” Dochi said.
”She said, ‘Hey this sounds nice — why don’t you write more stuff?’ So I began looking for band members [after quitting The Side Project],” he said.
Dochi recruited guitarist Sansan first. The two had musician friends in common and had, for a brief time, been in the same band: Killing Me Inside, with Dochi on guitar and Sansan on vocals.
The first thing they did was pick a name.
”One day we were chatting on the Internet trying to come up with a band name, and Sansan mentioned wanting to name it ‘Serial Killer,’?” Dochi said.
”We wanted a scary name, but the music we were going to play wasn’t exactly scary, so when we Googled ‘serial killer’ and the name Pee Wee Gaskins came up, it felt like the perfect amalgamation of our pop tendencies and something that was inherently terrifying,” Dochi said.
The pair then recruited musicians Aldy ”Mustache” on drums, Ai on guitar and Omo on keyboard and synthesizers.
By late 2007, the newly formed band was performing at a lot of low or nonpaying events. Before long, it was headlining these shows, as well as performing as guest stars at high-school bazaars, where it built its fan base.
By 2008, Pee Wee Gaskins was thriving, with appearances on TV shows such as RCTI’s ”Dashyat” and SCTV’s ”Playlist.”
It was also featured on the soundtrack for the movie ”Married by Accident,” which starred Nikita Willy.
In April 2008, the band released its debut EP, ”Stories From Our High School Years,” through the independent record label Kurd Records. The 2,000 copies of the EP quickly sold out.
Dochi said: ”We used the Internet to promote it, and sold it hand-to-hand. We did the distribution ourselves. Total DIY!”
Between 2008 and 2009, Pee Wee Gaskins really took off. Fans, calling themselves Party Dorks, helped promote the band through the Internet and by dropping flyers. The Party Dorks were so spread out across Indonesia that there were local divisions such as Party Dorks Bali and Party Dorks Semarang.
But the band’s quick rise to the top was also met with disdain by other groups of music fans, who began calling themselves the Anti Pee Wee Gaskins, or APWG for short. Like the Party Dorks, the APWG community also grew quickly, with young people building Facebook communities where they could chat about how much they hated the band. There were also numerous subgroups, including APWG Makassar, APWG Surabaya and so on.
APWG has never officially stated its intentions, nor the reason for its hatred. Online discussions do little to illuminate the motivations of members. Juan, an APWG supporter, simply wrote on the APWG discussion board on Facebook that he ”hates the band” because they are ”homos, arrogant, ungrateful of their fans, copycats.” Well, they certainly haven’t met the boys yet, it’s far from all those craps.
At a show in Surabaya, a group of APWG members came to a Pee Gaskins show simply to collectively raise their middle finger throughout the band’s set.
So much negativity would bother most bands, but Dochi seems to take it all in stride. Facing the Surabaya audience of thousands, with hundreds of them flipping him the bird, he said from the stage, ”You guys are still young, don’t hesitate to voice your opinion about us. We have come to make friends and have fun.”
Early 2009, the band released its first full-length album, ”The Sophomore,” which was released through a larger independent label called Variant Records.
The album has reportedly sold more than 4,000 copies in two months. A fact that makes Dochi happy, but not quite content.
”If you are feeling satisfied, you are bound to rest on your laurels. Then again, never feeling satisfied makes us complainers. Simply put, we are always trying to push ourselves as far as we can.”
As the story goes, the band is now preparing for their 3rd release on its senior year, Ad Astra Per Aspera, ”to the stars with all we’ve got” in Latin.
WHY YOU SHOULD KNOW ‘EM: Pee Wee Gaskins consist of 5 lads arising from south jakarta’s scene with heartpumping teenage hormons ready to rock the stage and doing all they can to have fun. Pee Wee Gaskins is here to have a good time, come and join them.
YOU’LL LIKE IF YOU LIKE: New Found Glory / Motion City Soundtrack / The Get Up Kids
”we’re just five mildly attractive dudes who enjoy everything about being in a band” -Sansan, Pee Wee Gaskins
and.. happy birthday PWG! To the stars with all you've got

I MADE YOU A SAD SONG

I cant sleep
and it’s been my first week
Since the first I held you close to me
and it’s like cutting all my fingers
just to keep it lingers

and I know that all those liquers wont heal
Back to the time when I want you around
and I kept writing songs singing “wish you were here”
Back to the time when I want you around
and i’m making you a sad song
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW HOW IT HURTS

I found a way to get you now
But im affraid I cant keep up with your heart
and it comes to this conclution, I got you now
But im affraid I cant keep up with your heart

Sometimes this fullness seems so empty
and I don’t know if I cant get thru this
Cus when im cutting all my fingers
To keep it lingers
I just know that all those liquers wont heal
Back to the time when I want you around
and I kept writing songs singing “wish you were here”
Back to the time when I want you around
and I’m making you a sad song
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW HOW IT HURTS

I found a way to get you now
But im affraid I cant keep up with your heart
and it comes to this conclution, I got you now
But im affraid I cant keep up with your heart

I want you here everytime I feel so empty inside
Im sick of this